Matt

Since it's a dad and he initiated by saying sorry and I want to try to make things better, entertain one more conversation and literally just let it be one conversation and then you can go from there. You can kind of evaluate. I would say obviously tread very carefully. I wouldn't even, you said you have to accept his apology. I don't even think you have to do that thus far.

Since it's a dad and he initiated by saying sorry and I want to try to make things better, entertain one more conversation and literally just let it be one conversation and then you can go from there. You can kind of evaluate. I would say obviously tread very carefully. I wouldn't even, you said you have to accept his apology. I don't even think you have to do that thus far.

I think you just say, I'm open to hearing what you have to say and you can kind of just see if they're like truly like sorry for how they acted and that they like want to make things right. And I agree with you. You need to have a lot of boundaries with that. And here's the thing. You don't have to be like.

I think you just say, I'm open to hearing what you have to say and you can kind of just see if they're like truly like sorry for how they acted and that they like want to make things right. And I agree with you. You need to have a lot of boundaries with that. And here's the thing. You don't have to be like.

I think you just say, I'm open to hearing what you have to say and you can kind of just see if they're like truly like sorry for how they acted and that they like want to make things right. And I agree with you. You need to have a lot of boundaries with that. And here's the thing. You don't have to be like.

seeing each other all the time you don't but like just to completely close that door when he's wanting to make things right doesn't feel right either but i feel like obviously have a lot of boundaries and also just like tread wisely like you don't need to just like let him in on every single detail of your life right away but at least allow that conversation especially since your fiance is open to it if your fiance was like super super hurt by that her fiance seems like a genuine guy yeah

seeing each other all the time you don't but like just to completely close that door when he's wanting to make things right doesn't feel right either but i feel like obviously have a lot of boundaries and also just like tread wisely like you don't need to just like let him in on every single detail of your life right away but at least allow that conversation especially since your fiance is open to it if your fiance was like super super hurt by that her fiance seems like a genuine guy yeah

seeing each other all the time you don't but like just to completely close that door when he's wanting to make things right doesn't feel right either but i feel like obviously have a lot of boundaries and also just like tread wisely like you don't need to just like let him in on every single detail of your life right away but at least allow that conversation especially since your fiance is open to it if your fiance was like super super hurt by that her fiance seems like a genuine guy yeah

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He seems like an awesome guy. And I feel like it'd be different if your fiance is like, I'm really, really like I think that since he's open to it, too, like you both just entertain one more conversation.

He seems like an awesome guy. And I feel like it'd be different if your fiance is like, I'm really, really like I think that since he's open to it, too, like you both just entertain one more conversation.

He seems like an awesome guy. And I feel like it'd be different if your fiance is like, I'm really, really like I think that since he's open to it, too, like you both just entertain one more conversation.

Oh, okay. How do I, a 21 year old male, tell my girlfriend, a 23 year old female, why I won't get a vasectomy? My girlfriend and I are extremely close. She's my best friend. We've been together three years. Eventually we're getting married, but it's not a huge priority right now due to college and other situations. She's very innocent and therefore believes it's impossible we would ever split up.

Oh, okay. How do I, a 21 year old male, tell my girlfriend, a 23 year old female, why I won't get a vasectomy? My girlfriend and I are extremely close. She's my best friend. We've been together three years. Eventually we're getting married, but it's not a huge priority right now due to college and other situations. She's very innocent and therefore believes it's impossible we would ever split up.

Oh, okay. How do I, a 21 year old male, tell my girlfriend, a 23 year old female, why I won't get a vasectomy? My girlfriend and I are extremely close. She's my best friend. We've been together three years. Eventually we're getting married, but it's not a huge priority right now due to college and other situations. She's very innocent and therefore believes it's impossible we would ever split up.

I admire her enthusiasm and don't see it happening either. But coming from a divorced parents, obviously I know rational people don't get married expecting a divorce and that anything is possible. Neither of us want kids, but especially not her. I could do it just fine if she really wanted them, but I prefer not to.

I admire her enthusiasm and don't see it happening either. But coming from a divorced parents, obviously I know rational people don't get married expecting a divorce and that anything is possible. Neither of us want kids, but especially not her. I could do it just fine if she really wanted them, but I prefer not to.

I admire her enthusiasm and don't see it happening either. But coming from a divorced parents, obviously I know rational people don't get married expecting a divorce and that anything is possible. Neither of us want kids, but especially not her. I could do it just fine if she really wanted them, but I prefer not to.