Matt

Like, that person should feel like home. where you're comfortable, where you're safe, where you feel recharged, not where you feel drained and worse about yourself and just- I feel like it's a no for me. Okay, I, a 26-year-old female, want to come clean to him, a 27-year-old male. How can I come clean? I'm looking for general advice on how to approach this.

Like, that person should feel like home. where you're comfortable, where you're safe, where you feel recharged, not where you feel drained and worse about yourself and just- I feel like it's a no for me. Okay, I, a 26-year-old female, want to come clean to him, a 27-year-old male. How can I come clean? I'm looking for general advice on how to approach this.

Like, that person should feel like home. where you're comfortable, where you're safe, where you feel recharged, not where you feel drained and worse about yourself and just- I feel like it's a no for me. Okay, I, a 26-year-old female, want to come clean to him, a 27-year-old male. How can I come clean? I'm looking for general advice on how to approach this.

This is embarrassing and the guilt is eating me up. I met this good friend in college, he's 27, and our connection has been strong ever since. However, when we first met, I lied about my family. I grew up extremely poor, sharing my bedroom with three siblings, zero dollars in the bank account, no money to buy toiletries, to give you an idea.

This is embarrassing and the guilt is eating me up. I met this good friend in college, he's 27, and our connection has been strong ever since. However, when we first met, I lied about my family. I grew up extremely poor, sharing my bedroom with three siblings, zero dollars in the bank account, no money to buy toiletries, to give you an idea.

This is embarrassing and the guilt is eating me up. I met this good friend in college, he's 27, and our connection has been strong ever since. However, when we first met, I lied about my family. I grew up extremely poor, sharing my bedroom with three siblings, zero dollars in the bank account, no money to buy toiletries, to give you an idea.

When we met, I was extremely ashamed of this, so I hid that part of me. I told him my family was better off than we were, that my parents had good jobs. Basically, I lied about my parents having jobs that they never had and had money that they didn't have, giving him a fake impression of me, a lie.

When we met, I was extremely ashamed of this, so I hid that part of me. I told him my family was better off than we were, that my parents had good jobs. Basically, I lied about my parents having jobs that they never had and had money that they didn't have, giving him a fake impression of me, a lie.

When we met, I was extremely ashamed of this, so I hid that part of me. I told him my family was better off than we were, that my parents had good jobs. Basically, I lied about my parents having jobs that they never had and had money that they didn't have, giving him a fake impression of me, a lie.

Fast forward to the present, I graduated college and got a good job, so I'm doing pretty decent financially. I know he likes me and I like him too and I'm considering taking the first step to try to start a relationship. But it feels like I don't deserve it and that I should just stay away because of my lie.

Fast forward to the present, I graduated college and got a good job, so I'm doing pretty decent financially. I know he likes me and I like him too and I'm considering taking the first step to try to start a relationship. But it feels like I don't deserve it and that I should just stay away because of my lie.

Fast forward to the present, I graduated college and got a good job, so I'm doing pretty decent financially. I know he likes me and I like him too and I'm considering taking the first step to try to start a relationship. But it feels like I don't deserve it and that I should just stay away because of my lie.

But another part of me just wants to come clean and see if we can try a romantic relationship. I'm extremely ashamed and I don't know why I lied. So please, please be nice in the comments. I know I messed up. I know I was terrible for lying. I feel disgusted at myself every time I think about it. I regret this so much. I think I was just younger and stupid. What do you think I should do?

But another part of me just wants to come clean and see if we can try a romantic relationship. I'm extremely ashamed and I don't know why I lied. So please, please be nice in the comments. I know I messed up. I know I was terrible for lying. I feel disgusted at myself every time I think about it. I regret this so much. I think I was just younger and stupid. What do you think I should do?

But another part of me just wants to come clean and see if we can try a romantic relationship. I'm extremely ashamed and I don't know why I lied. So please, please be nice in the comments. I know I messed up. I know I was terrible for lying. I feel disgusted at myself every time I think about it. I regret this so much. I think I was just younger and stupid. What do you think I should do?

Well, also like, honey, you're not the first person that's ever like exaggerate or stretch the truth to try to appeal to the people around you.

Well, also like, honey, you're not the first person that's ever like exaggerate or stretch the truth to try to appeal to the people around you.

Well, also like, honey, you're not the first person that's ever like exaggerate or stretch the truth to try to appeal to the people around you.

He very well could have. And just like, she just wasn't like... If she acted like her family was loaded and all this, then if they showed up to... She said like they had better jobs than they have.

He very well could have. And just like, she just wasn't like... If she acted like her family was loaded and all this, then if they showed up to... She said like they had better jobs than they have.