Matt

Then when I noticed, I found some drugs hidden somewhere and looked through her phone and found out all sorts of information I didn't want to know.

realize, hey, you know, our son was born a month earlier than he should have been, so that got me questioning his parentage, and I had a DNA test done, and he is not my son, unfortunately.

I never wanted to abandon, it was never a question for me whether or not I was going to abandon him and her and just...

and let them go on their merry way.

Despite all of my friends and family advice, they all said, hey, you know, just get yourself off the birth certificate, man.

Just go on your merry way.

And I could have, but that's not... I couldn't.

You know, I'm the only person he knows as his father, and I'm not going to permanently disrupt his life just because of a temporary...

disruption in mind.

So anyway, he's my son.

I'm going to raise him.

I learned later on that she was a felon.

She's got these drug addictions.

Her friends are mostly felons.

She's just not somebody I would have gotten with had I known all these things prior to, but

She's in my home and I don't trust her.

She disrespects me all the time.

And just the things she does, whether or not we're together, she could still be a good mom, but she's choosing not to be.

She's doing the bare minimums and not completely neglecting him, but she could be better.

I would hope for better, but she is who she is.