Matt

of us like leaving missouri being on the beach in hawaii me surfing every day seeing my smoking hot wife in a bikini all the time because we're going to the beach all the time eating acai bowls living in a little cute surf surfer shack on the beach like we had this amazing life and then i'm like i'm freaking living in the desert and i've got two rugrats that i have to keep alive 24 7 and i don't have any time myself that like freaked me out but we got

But we got through it.

Now I'm like fighting myself to not love my kids more than you because it's like, it's so important that I love you and put you above our children because that's like the key to a happy, healthy relationship.

That's the trap we can't fall into.

Yeah, you can't fall into that trap of like loving your kids.

Tony Robbins talked to us about that.

And many people.

And Arthur Brooks and John.

You can't do that.

You want to, as you're raising your kids, want to see you put your spouse first.

They do.

That makes them feel safe.

Yeah, that was a hard season.

And that's part of it too.

Like, yeah, I mean, it's funny hearing you say that.

Yeah, because like moving out of Hawaii really wasn't a compromise or moving to this house wasn't really compromised.

But I think there's times in marriage where you just have to fully abandon what you want.

Yes, guys.

The Shirley Temple flavor is probably my favorite Olipop flavor of all time.

I drank, I think, the entire case basically by myself.