Matt

How the heck did we con our way here, man?

High five.

Go us.

I love how we chatted with Arthur.

He talked about how we're gifted with this prefrontal cortex and we're supposed to use it.

We're supposed to decipher all the feelings that we have and understand, do we agree with them?

Like, is the feeling that I have valid?

I mean, I mean, the reality is like we're allowed to feel all these.

There's nothing wrong with feeling a certain way.

but it's what you do with that information yes dangerous that that's like that's like deciding that you're a monkey right yeah like you're a three-year-old a three-year-old just goes off of their feelings all the time yeah like what separates you a grown-up with a developed prefrontal cortex from a three-year-old if you're just gonna go off of your feelings all the time

is complex decision making so i agree i think that's really good next agree to disagree prompt marriage should be hard to leave i'm gonna say agree yeah i'm gonna say agree i almost said disagree because i think like for women or i guess there's men too that can be stuck in a domestic violence situation they definitely need to get out like that's not safe for them or the kids way though it's hard though if you marry someone assuming like marriage is forever to have to rewrite

Yeah.

Yeah, I think it is hard.

I think it's hard for a reason.

I think that's why you need to put so much thought and care and time into the decision to get married.

Yeah.

Life is hard, so you got to choose your hard.

There's no way to get over the fact that you're going to suffer and struggle and life is going to be hard.

And that's a sad reality.

But it's like, I think what makes it all worth it is having a purpose.