Matthew
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Well, in 2012, my dad passed away suddenly from cancer. I'm sorry. And he didn't have a very concise will put together. He had directives. Um, when he died, he was taking care of his mother, um, who was suffering from dementia and Alzheimer's six months after he died, she died. And that left everything that was supposed to go to kids and grandkids and cousins, um, kind of up in the air.
Well, in 2012, my dad passed away suddenly from cancer. I'm sorry. And he didn't have a very concise will put together. He had directives. Um, when he died, he was taking care of his mother, um, who was suffering from dementia and Alzheimer's six months after he died, she died. And that left everything that was supposed to go to kids and grandkids and cousins, um, kind of up in the air.
Well, in 2012, my dad passed away suddenly from cancer. I'm sorry. And he didn't have a very concise will put together. He had directives. Um, when he died, he was taking care of his mother, um, who was suffering from dementia and Alzheimer's six months after he died, she died. And that left everything that was supposed to go to kids and grandkids and cousins, um, kind of up in the air.
And then eventually everything was in my aunt's name. Um, so, um,
And then eventually everything was in my aunt's name. Um, so, um,
And then eventually everything was in my aunt's name. Um, so, um,
yeah so how now the the good how did it end up in her name probate she was the deciding that no no probate no probate somehow we skated by probate nobody was arguing about anything my aunt happened to be the last surviving child and it just it just went everything into my aunt's name because my dad's will was not in good shape um but my my grandmother's was um but she died after my dad.
yeah so how now the the good how did it end up in her name probate she was the deciding that no no probate no probate somehow we skated by probate nobody was arguing about anything my aunt happened to be the last surviving child and it just it just went everything into my aunt's name because my dad's will was not in good shape um but my my grandmother's was um but she died after my dad.
yeah so how now the the good how did it end up in her name probate she was the deciding that no no probate no probate somehow we skated by probate nobody was arguing about anything my aunt happened to be the last surviving child and it just it just went everything into my aunt's name because my dad's will was not in good shape um but my my grandmother's was um but she died after my dad.
So nothing went to him. So I, um, am in a position now to where like I'm the only person who has a steady job out of my siblings. Um, and I'm trying to get my siblings and my cousins together cause my, my aunt's husband is also dead. It was just my aunt and she's kind of going into a little bit of a mental decline. My siblings are okay. Everybody knows who's supposed to get what. From the aunt?
So nothing went to him. So I, um, am in a position now to where like I'm the only person who has a steady job out of my siblings. Um, and I'm trying to get my siblings and my cousins together cause my, my aunt's husband is also dead. It was just my aunt and she's kind of going into a little bit of a mental decline. My siblings are okay. Everybody knows who's supposed to get what. From the aunt?
So nothing went to him. So I, um, am in a position now to where like I'm the only person who has a steady job out of my siblings. Um, and I'm trying to get my siblings and my cousins together cause my, my aunt's husband is also dead. It was just my aunt and she's kind of going into a little bit of a mental decline. My siblings are okay. Everybody knows who's supposed to get what. From the aunt?
From my cousins. Yeah, from the aunt. Because she's okay with everybody getting what they were supposed to get in the beginning.
From my cousins. Yeah, from the aunt. Because she's okay with everybody getting what they were supposed to get in the beginning.
From my cousins. Yeah, from the aunt. Because she's okay with everybody getting what they were supposed to get in the beginning.
The cousins, nobody's arguing about anything that they're supposed to get.
The cousins, nobody's arguing about anything that they're supposed to get.
The cousins, nobody's arguing about anything that they're supposed to get.
Correct. Okay. So what we've got, this is the biggest struggle, is my aunt's two children... The only bicker is over her own personal effects that she had and her husband had. Not about the properties, nothing that anything my grandmother had. They're fighting over those things, and it's making it difficult for any of the rest of us to get a regular will set up.
Correct. Okay. So what we've got, this is the biggest struggle, is my aunt's two children... The only bicker is over her own personal effects that she had and her husband had. Not about the properties, nothing that anything my grandmother had. They're fighting over those things, and it's making it difficult for any of the rest of us to get a regular will set up.