Megan Kozak

How does it work?

What happens, right?

It was the best thing we did.

It was the silliest, goofiest, most awkward conversation.

I would never want to relive it.

Holy moly, cringe.

But it just meant everything was on the table and then we were like, oh, well, I guess I do love you.

I don't recommend this to my clients, but you know what?

21 years later, it worked for me.

i love that so much okay well let's reverse it what if someone says it to you and you're not ready and you don't feel it yet what's the best thing to say back to that person oh really good question because we see examples of this all the time in the media right we see someone go thank you really awkwardly and then leave or say nothing and bolt like we see really tricky awkward examples okay what if we receive it

what if we just receive it in that moment this person is saying they see me they know me they actually love what they're seeing and what they're knowing what a glorious thing to be told about yourself how beautiful in that moment so just receive it first and foremost and then respond accordingly it doesn't mean you've got to respond with i love you you might say that is amazing

Thank you so much for telling me that.

And I would love to be able to say that back to you, but I'm just not there yet.

And I think you probably know why, you know, we talked about my family or my past relationship.

I'm so excited to be able to say that to you one day.

I'm not there yet.

So, but for right now, can I just say that's amazing?

And can I give you a hug?

Just hold the moment.

Don't lose the gift that's in there.