Megan

My name is Megan. I'm 30 years old.

So I'm trying to figure out how to forgive an absentee father after four plus years.

So I'm trying to figure out how to forgive an absentee father after four plus years.

So I'm trying to figure out how to forgive an absentee father after four plus years.

So, short backstory of my life. My parents divorced whenever I was a year old. My father was pretty much in and out of my life my entire life. It was to the point to where I didn't even really want to spend time with him. So my mom kind of left that to my discretion. If I didn't want to see him, obviously she could not make me. Even as I got older, he didn't really

So, short backstory of my life. My parents divorced whenever I was a year old. My father was pretty much in and out of my life my entire life. It was to the point to where I didn't even really want to spend time with him. So my mom kind of left that to my discretion. If I didn't want to see him, obviously she could not make me. Even as I got older, he didn't really

So, short backstory of my life. My parents divorced whenever I was a year old. My father was pretty much in and out of my life my entire life. It was to the point to where I didn't even really want to spend time with him. So my mom kind of left that to my discretion. If I didn't want to see him, obviously she could not make me. Even as I got older, he didn't really

much make an effort to see me or talk to me or anything. Fast forward to my adult life. I even tried to take him out for Father's Day one year and he told me no. I ended up marrying a military man. So anyone knows about military relationships, they do move very fast. So I met my now husband in 2020. We got married after probably about five or six months of dating.

much make an effort to see me or talk to me or anything. Fast forward to my adult life. I even tried to take him out for Father's Day one year and he told me no. I ended up marrying a military man. So anyone knows about military relationships, they do move very fast. So I met my now husband in 2020. We got married after probably about five or six months of dating.

much make an effort to see me or talk to me or anything. Fast forward to my adult life. I even tried to take him out for Father's Day one year and he told me no. I ended up marrying a military man. So anyone knows about military relationships, they do move very fast. So I met my now husband in 2020. We got married after probably about five or six months of dating.

I had not heard from my father any that year we moved. out of state across the country. And I don't even think my father knew that I moved. And then a year after us being there, I got pregnant with our son. He is now two and a half years old. After I got pregnant, I ended up blocking... My father and his wife have a joint Facebook account. I blocked that Facebook account because...

I had not heard from my father any that year we moved. out of state across the country. And I don't even think my father knew that I moved. And then a year after us being there, I got pregnant with our son. He is now two and a half years old. After I got pregnant, I ended up blocking... My father and his wife have a joint Facebook account. I blocked that Facebook account because...

I had not heard from my father any that year we moved. out of state across the country. And I don't even think my father knew that I moved. And then a year after us being there, I got pregnant with our son. He is now two and a half years old. After I got pregnant, I ended up blocking... My father and his wife have a joint Facebook account. I blocked that Facebook account because...

In my mind, I was like, if he did not make an effort for my whole life, I didn't really want him to know that I was starting a family of my own. I kind of feel like that's a privilege. So fast forward the whole three years we were in that state, did not obviously hear anything from him. We've now been in our current state for a year now.

In my mind, I was like, if he did not make an effort for my whole life, I didn't really want him to know that I was starting a family of my own. I kind of feel like that's a privilege. So fast forward the whole three years we were in that state, did not obviously hear anything from him. We've now been in our current state for a year now.

In my mind, I was like, if he did not make an effort for my whole life, I didn't really want him to know that I was starting a family of my own. I kind of feel like that's a privilege. So fast forward the whole three years we were in that state, did not obviously hear anything from him. We've now been in our current state for a year now.

And probably about two months ago, my aunt, so his sister, found me on Facebook, sent me a friend request. At first, I declined it because I have not spoken to her since I was probably about 16 years old. I gave her a chance to reach out to me. She never did. So I ended up messaging her. We kind of conversed for a day or two. She kind of gave the same excuse as the, you know, life gets in the way.

And probably about two months ago, my aunt, so his sister, found me on Facebook, sent me a friend request. At first, I declined it because I have not spoken to her since I was probably about 16 years old. I gave her a chance to reach out to me. She never did. So I ended up messaging her. We kind of conversed for a day or two. She kind of gave the same excuse as the, you know, life gets in the way.

And probably about two months ago, my aunt, so his sister, found me on Facebook, sent me a friend request. At first, I declined it because I have not spoken to her since I was probably about 16 years old. I gave her a chance to reach out to me. She never did. So I ended up messaging her. We kind of conversed for a day or two. She kind of gave the same excuse as the, you know, life gets in the way.

Always wondered about you, you know, never did anything about it. And then she asked me, could she give my father my phone number? I hesitated, but Gave it to him. He called me like a couple of days later. He gave a lot of excuses with his phone call, kind of the same way that she did, saying life gets in the way. Always wondered about you. I know where you were living for three years.