Mel Schilling

Why is kindness so important to you as a person?

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And it links very closely with honesty because...

Yes, I guess.

Yes.

That's interesting.

Honesty is kindness, isn't it?

Sometimes it's, it's hard to be honest, but it is the kind.

Kindest thing.

As long as it's delivered.

It takes incredible courage to be honest and open.

I think most of us, if we're being real, would say that there are aspects of ourselves that we're constantly holding back, keeping from people and, you know, to be able to get to the point that you're at now where you're in this relationship that's absolutely blossoming because you are both, you know, being open and vulnerable and honest.

I mean, that's really special.

Is it luck or is it what you've created and what you deserve?

Oh, yes.

Yes, absolutely.

There's been some interesting research done on that around attraction.

And one of the things they've found is that if the values are aligned and your lifestyle preferences are working well together, the laughs will come.