Melissa Kircher

And so that's where the Enneagram comes in.

And you really hope to lean one or the other.

But that's also why I love to talk about nuance.

And the nuance in this is also what you mentioned, depending on your circumstance and what you're going through at the time could also have a huge impact.

on that experience.

So I want to get into that a little bit more of that.

So obviously learning the Enneagram is so important, but when is it important to start doing and why is it helpful to us in certain ways?

Okay.

Controversial take, but not so.

I don't know.

There's a lot of teachers.

There's a lot of people that are way above me, and they all have opinions.

So I just have to do what I've seen and experienced, right?

I think the when is at least mid-20s to me.

I'm not saying you can't learn about it before then.

I'm not saying you can't type yourself before then.

There's not work to do.

But in trying to do work with younger people than mid-20s, you haven't had enough time to have all of these patterns emerge and see...

What they're doing.

Because while they're all the good stuff, there is some negative stuff to it as well.