Melissa Kircher

Why am I doing the same things?

What's going on with me?

I've tried everything.

I'm in therapy.

I'm in and I'm trying all the stuff and it comes across your awareness or something.

And you go, oh, shit.

You might read it and say something like that because it peels back.

I felt like my skin had been peeled off when I finally found out my type and people could see all my messy little insides and go, shoot.

It's really helpful to understand your motivations of what's going on and to figure out your childhood and to understand your inner child and to work on the parts of yourself that

It's really a tool that can be combined with other tools for, I think, a high level of effectiveness in healing and transformation.

When I had experience learning the Enneagram, even at that time, and now I can obviously look back and see a different side to that.

But when it happened, it was really formative for me and understanding the things that were happening to me of just why it might relate, how it might connect to different parts of my life and the story that I'd been telling myself, right?

The things that I had convinced myself of and

That's why the Enneagram in general just holds a really special place for me.

I think it can be a really big healing tool for people.

I think that it can work in a way that allows you to heal and see yourself from a different perspective than you ever really thought possible.

And I don't know if your clients experience that same feeling as well.

Yeah, I try to approach any kind of work with self-compassion, consent, love, kindness, right?

So we're not going into anything deeper without really trying to understand with a lot of gentleness what's happening here, right?

And when we see that, okay, let's explore that of why, but let's go there with kindness.