Melissa Sullivan

If you want to take photos, then you hire a sitter, and they can bring them in for a very short amount of time.

Maybe they walk down the aisle, and then they need to leave.

Exactly, yes.

They can't stay for the ceremony.

Yeah, it's not a haphazard.

Right.

And aside from the intentional connections, maybe you're trying to forge relationships or what have you.

there are reasons that, you know, we have this information, whether it be allergies or maybe meals are assigned.

There's lots of different reasons why we need to know where you're seated, so it messes things up for us, too.

I think when it's open-ended, it's good.

Formal could be confusing, though.

Yeah.

Your mother obviously knows how to dress up, but some people actually don't.

Formal, what does it mean?

You're right.

It's difficult.

Sometimes we'll have on the website, say, as some of you have inquired, we've linked to Pinterest board, you know, should it be helpful?

Right.

And otherwise, some people will ask us.

A lot of guests will ask because they feel insecure and they don't want to be under arrest.