Melissa Vranjes

Young girls are coming into school being like, I feel harassed.

There's this expectation.

And it's because that's what they're seeing in porn.

and one woman said i work in a brothel and there's 72 girls of us and four out of the 72 girls offer butt play as a service so it's really interesting porn has created this idea that it's super normal just to like

get in the back door and give it a ram and that's how you do it because that's how you vaginally do it and it's like it's just so not it there's got to be so much more care given to that and people just aren't taking that time to really prepare the butt for it to be pleasurable that's why so many people like I've had a bad experience where a guy just like slipped it in and it was just like oh my god that's that was so painful you know I'm holding my breath I'm like

Is this what it's like?

Is this what I should be doing?

You know, it's like that's, pleasure can't build from that experience ever.

So we need to be thinking about how can we massage the butt first?

Whether that's your male partner, your female partner, massage the butt.

Even like a little spanking can really help with, and you want to be spanking on the thut, which is like the back of the thigh and the bottom of the butt where the fatty bit is.

But when you spank, that can send vibrations up into the vaginal canal and the anal canal as well.

So it kind of preps that area of the body to receive.

Yeah, spanking's great.

Actually, yeah, that's coming up.

But I think it might be because of the way you spank.

Yeah, it's got to be.

It's not the side of the butt.

It's unbelievable.

It's the meaty part.