Melissa Vranjes

That means we've pushed past boundaries or we haven't used enough lube or we're using a toy that's too big or there hasn't been communication or you've tried to push through.

It's like, oh, well, this is my butt, so it should just hurt.

No, it shouldn't.

It definitely shouldn't hurt.

Use lube.

where are we going with this what was the question why why does it oh yeah why is it pleasurable for women we don't have a g-spot up there but again we've got so many nerve endings there and also i maybe said this at the start i can't remember but if we're in the right position we can um

stimulate the vaginal spots in there you know that p and k spot if we're it's just another area of the body that can experience an immense amount of pleasure so why not bring pleasure in there yeah why not hit the back door is is it dangerous dangerous in what way well to like put something up your bum

No, it depends what you're putting up.

If you're putting up a lighter or like something weird, then yeah.

I've never been in there.

I immediately think of like opening up some curtains being like, oh, hello in there.

I can't quite see you.

No, it can't be dangerous.

It's pleasurable.

It's dangerous if you're rough, if you're not communicating, if you're not asking for consent, if you're just shoving things in there.

What can tend to happen is people are like, oh, let's try anal and we'll just do it the way they do.

vaginal penetration you know it's like yeah let's just stick it in or let's just in doggy style stick it in it's like it absolutely does not work like that you need to build up someone's body to be able to receive something up

that part but porn makes it look so easy doesn't it porn is their fit oh god the girls are gagging for it and it's just so easy looking okay so I saw this um on a friend of mine's post who was talking about in the younger generation so a lot of young women uh

exploring butt play, which this isn't really sexy stuff right now, but we're going to go into this.

A lot of boys who are watching porn expect that these younger girls are just open and available, and butt play's great, and they're experiencing pain, micro tears.