Melissa Vranjes

For masturbation, for sex.

If the goal is pleasure, you're going to have better sex.

When we're so focused, which again, it's just our society, it's like sex finishes when there's an orgasm.

If I don't orgasm, there's something wrong with me.

I've failed.

Can you shift from can I have a climax to can I experience pleasure?

And how much pleasure can I experience?

And the irony of that is that when you focus on how much pleasure you can experience, you can have way bigger and better orgasms.

No, I've met with clients like that.

Not if your focus is pleasure.

Right.

You know, if you're pre-orgasmic, which means you can't orgasm, we purely focus on pleasure.

okay how can we bring more pleasure into this experience okay where can we touch that feels pleasurable how much pleasure can we experience here 10 20 30 oh yes okay beautiful you know that then there's no such thing as failure or right or wrong it's just like yeah i experience some form of pleasure sometimes when i masturbate i don't orgasm it's just like i just want to feel in my body and i just want to feel sensual and like erotic okay and then that energy gives me that like radiance and charge throughout the day

I was.

I could feel the baby just kicking so much.

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Very fun self-care.

Pleasure to live it.