Melissa Vranjes

Okay, I want you to explore different types.

of touch sorry i can't look at you i can't look at me then it's fine different types of touch so change things up so firm pressure light barely there touching um explore different areas of the body again don't just go for the clit if you're a female like really focus down the outer labiae

Really touching, I talk about something and share a lot in my programs, a pussy massage, which is really about massaging your whole outer labia, your inner labia, your inner thighs, the mons pubis, really waking everything up so that it feels engorged, so that erectile tissue is plump and ready for stimulation.

A lot of the time we're masturbating

we're not even turning ourselves on.

It's just like buzz, buzz.

Okay, that will get me there.

And sure, you may orgasm, but it's just not going to feel satisfying over time.

If we take that time and use different speeds, touches, pressures, it will just feel so much better.

Manual stim over toy stim.

Yeah.

Just exploring that, what that feels like for you.

I personally love manual stimulation.

Toys are fun every now and again, but it's not something I use all the time.

Can you get addicted to using toys?

Yeah.

Absolutely.

Exactly.

That's so true.

Really?