Melissa Vranjes

She's lost all her words.

And I think as well, when you masturbate, it reconnects you back to your desire, your eroticism, fantasy, your curiosities.

I do something in session with clients called the erotic mind map.

We should do it with you one day.

Yeah, it could be a bit too personal.

Well, I could always share mine.

Maybe not, actually.

Anyway, and, like, what do you find or where do your curiosities lead you in sex?

You know, it's like, oh, well, I did this thing or I looked up this thing in porn or I did that thing.

Like, I wonder if I could bring that into my partner.

You know, it just, like, opens your mind to your potential sexual curiosities and

it opens your mind to fantasy, to role play with a partner.

Like it just starts to open you up instead of just going, okay, well, this is what's on offer for me.

So this is, this is, this will do for the rest of my life.

It's like, you know, do you think that,

Really?

Absolutely.

I absolutely recommend, especially if you're both feeling tired and you're both like, oh, I can't be bothered.

Sometimes just lying next to each other and both touching yourselves can be really erotic.

You can have a race.