Melissa Vranjes

I've seen it.

Not use lube, not warm up, not stretch the anus.

And when I say not warm up, like don't touch the anus, just go straight from the vagina into the butt.

and treat it the same as the vagina where it's just like pound pound pound pound so don't do that yeah yeah and also in the wrong positions as well oh yeah what positions are best yeah positions so one position is obviously doggy that can go quite deep I would modify doggy and like lay down and put pillows underneath your body so you can really relax okay yeah

Side lying, so a partner behind you, whether they've got a strap on or they've got a cock, sliding in behind you.

And then another one is you in missionary and them actually coming from underneath.

And it's a great idea just to prop your pelvis up a little bit as well so they can get in there.

So that's three positions that can feel quite good.

No, if you're not curious about it, don't do it.

You know, I don't think everyone should try every sexual thing if it's like, doesn't tickle your fancy.

You know, if you're not excited about it, if you're not listening to this being like, oh God, oh, absolutely not.

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No fear, no shame, just really good prep.

Do your wink again.

I think going slow is really underrated.

Going slow, checking in, even beforehand, like, babe, should we use a toy or should we just use manual stimulation?

Like, what would feel good for you?

And when you're looking at toys, there's some specific toys.

So I've got a prostate massager here, which those of you who are listening, it's like a black, looks like a T shape.

But it's a prostate massager specifically for men.