Melissa Vranjes

So there's like little ridges that sit on the prostate as well as like external little flappy wings that sit like underneath the scrotum and things like that.

So having that discussion is really helpful and it opens up like, would you want to use a toy?

Would it want to be manual stimulation, vibration?

Checking in before you insert anything.

Hey, do you feel like something inserted?

not and then I think like post chickens like aftercare is really important hey how was that for you and feedback is your friend saying like that position really worked for me I love that you did that or I really appreciated that you checked in there or whatever you're doing with your tongue like I want that on repeat that was so good really important when we're trying something new just to like chat it through do you think it's better with a toy or with a penis

I think both offer different things.

It really depends on you and what you like.

Sometimes vibration feels good for me.

Sometimes I don't like it at all.

Sometimes I don't want anything at all.

Sometimes I want a little bit of glass around.

That sounds really bad.

Not glass, you know, butt plug glass.

Really?

It's made out of, yeah, it's made out of brocillarate.

What's that type of glass?

Oh, my gosh.

Yeah, it can't shatter, which is what baby's bottles are made out of.

Like, you can drop it and it won't.