Melissa Vranjes

You need to be planning how we're going to communicate this.

If someone's feeling off, what are we going to do then?

Like how what's consent look like?

What words are we going to be using?

Where are we going to be doing it?

How are we going to make sure that everyone involved is like, you know, it's actually exhausting.

If you want to play out a proper fantasy rather than just leaving it up to it naturally unfolding, you've got to plan it.

I do.

I actually do a little bit of research.

So there's actually a lot of research that shows different things and what they're looking for different fantasies.

So I kind of bulked it into different topics rather than like,

80% of women love choking.

Okay, so the first one is multi-partnered sex.

Okay, so that's your number one.

I think it's maybe a power dynamic thing.

I also think there's something in being wanted and admired in the... By multiple people.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

You know, I think there is something in there.

And also, it's just super taboo.

If we really look into the depths of fantasies, I studied eroticism last year, and it was so interesting looking at fantasy and what's actually underneath the desire.