Melissa Vranjes
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It's like you get fixated on I need this fantasy in my mind to get off.
That's where I think it's where we start to lose embodiment around our fantasies.
What are you thinking about?
You don't need to think about it right now.
You've got some, though.
You dine on some ideas and thoughts.
And in our minds, we're safe.
We're somewhat in control sometimes.
You know, we're predicting what happens so that it works for us.
Whereas somebody could just have bad breath and it's like, oh, God.
It ain't hot anymore.
Or someone's wearing weird...
In your mind, usually a fantasy in your mind is always going to work a lot better than the actual thing.
You've got quite a lot of planning to do to actually play it out.
You know, it's not just like, let's get drunk and dive into a threesome, which so many people do.