Melissa Vranjes

So the cervix needs time to warm up.

It's not like the clit.

It requires that somebody who's never had a cervical orgasm before, you really want to think about de-armoring the cervix, which looks like over time the cervix kind of creates this protective layer over it from things that have been forced or pushed or just inserted without consent.

And the cervix is sensitive, so it does create this protective layer over it, which it just kind of hardens and desensitizes.

So when I'm teaching women how to have cervical orgasms, we bring in a wand, a very specific cervical wand, which I don't have here today, but I'll put on stories or something.

Um, you can, but I recommend only a few type of cervical wands.

They're a specific type of glass, a glass that's made out of baby bottles.

So it's like pretty much unbreakable.

and it's long and it has a curve so you don't want to be working with the g-spot toy because it's short and you know it's you want to be thinking of something long so you've got a proper handle to hold and you're massaging around the cervix so the cervix looks like a donut if you insert your fingers so squat down insert your fingers it feels like the end of your nose the cervix looks like a donut yeah that's where you know you're touching the cervix how do you know what it looks like

Oh, I've looked at mine.

What?

Yeah.

So there's an amazing company.

I don't know if they do it anymore.

I love thy cervix.

And you can get a kit where there's like a mirror, a torch and a speculum.

And you can actually look at your cervix, which if we want to create connection to our bodies, it gives that visual of like, OK, when I'm touching this part of my body, I know what it looks like.

You've got the spectrum, that's like doing its thing, opening up, and then you've got the torch and the mirror and you're just having a look.

Interesting.

Or when maybe you're getting a pap smear or something, just say, can I have a mirror and have a look at my cervix?