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Melissa Vranjes

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How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

And then finishing and going, oh, so but why can't I come with my partner?

How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

And it's like, first of all, you haven't got that visual stimulation.

How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

you, some people aren't even using toys and part of play.

How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

And we've wired up our body for like intense erotic, like visual stimulation over nothing, you know, where it's just like, I'm, I've just got a body and I'm kissing and things are slow.

How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

It's like, I'm not used to this.

How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

I'm used to just like deciding that I'm going to have an orgasm.

How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

And within a minute I've got something erotic and visual right there.

How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

So we're kind of,

How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

Erica Lust.

How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

So ethical porn really means that people are consenting to what they're doing.

How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

They're getting paid well for what they're doing.

How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

They're using protection.

How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

People are properly checked.

How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

There's health involved.

How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

There's boundaries.

How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

It's just like how it's being made is ethical.

How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

Yeah, exactly.

How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

There's no traffic.

How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

There's no abuse.

How To Have Sex
How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy

Everyone is on board with what's happening.