Melissa Vranjes

Our podcast is classy, okay?

But before we jump in, but, but, but, last week's pleasure practice, which was all about butt play.

So JJ, I gave you and our community, our listeners, some butt play practice, which was trying some of the three techniques.

How did you...

The doorbell, so in and out.

Maybe somebody else feels the same.

It's like, oh my God, I feel that too, JJ.

No.

Well, tell me what comes up for you when you said, like, excruciatingly painful.

Okay, so do you feel like it's gross or dirty or it's just like, oh, my God, no one talks about that.

We shouldn't talk about that.

We don't do that.

Is that what kind of comes up?

It's... Private.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And it's, like, not something... Like, that's something... It's for you and... Is it?

it comes with shame yeah of course so where does that come from yeah well I think shame disgust um a grossness like you shouldn't be doing it if you're in a relationship like if you're doing it in your when you're in a relationship means that you're not having a good sex like you're not having good sex so I think oh yeah because you think you feel guilty yeah like

Yeah.

Okay.