Melissa Vranjes

Let's go back to where does that come from?

Your question of like shame.

Did you say shame?

Yeah.

Shame.

So first off, I think we've normalized wanking.

We've normalized boys touching themselves, men touching themselves at school.

I don't know about you, but for me, it was always like, yeah, I'm going to have a wank or like, yeah, rub one out.

And it was always very acceptable.

But if a

honestly if we go a bit deeper than this it's just like female sexuality suppressed you know it comes down to that and it's like women don't do that it's dirty that's disgusting why do you why are you doing that you know if we even date all the way back when the first vibrator was created it was like there was hysteria there because women had so much sexual tension and this vibrator was I don't know what year that would have been I can't remember but

it was created, the big vibrator, so women could release sexual tension.

And yet prior to that,

like wanking and men pleasuring was normalized you know so it's just like that shame comes from like centuries centuries of our female sexuality being suppressed that's why i don't like talking about it yeah yeah actually though you know it's like men's pleasure self-pleasuring very normalized women's self-pleasuring like not at all

Yeah, well, most women were taught that it's shameful, it's dirty, it's disgusting, you shouldn't do it.

Instead of it's incredibly beneficial for your health, for your skin, for your hair.

Yeah, absolutely.

Think about the hormones that are released.

Is that why you have such great skin?

Yeah.