Melissa Vranjes

is it actually though yes really yes because when you orgasm or when you're feeling pleasure for example doesn't even need to be orgasm you're releasing a certain and like it's a chemical dump in your body of oxytocin of dopamine of like positive hormones you know it's it's like it's incredible for your body and not only that collagen

But it's really great for your health.

It's great for your connection to yourself.

It's very empowering.

It helps you have great sleeps.

It allows you to wire your body to receive that kind of touch and stimulation from a partner.

So it's helping you understand what are you like?

What don't you like?

What gets you off?

What doesn't?

You know, it's really helping you have a better sex life with a partner when you know more about yourself.

Because if you don't know about yourself, you can't communicate that with somebody.

And then you're literally relying on somebody to give you an experience.

It's like, hey, here's where I want to go, but I'm not going to give you the map on how to get there or the best.

You know, it's like frustration, shit sex, you know, disappointment, no desire, no libido.

Because this person is potentially using tricks that they used on somebody else and going, why aren't they working here?

Yeah.

Whereas when we masturbate or we touch ourselves, self-pleasure, we're going, oh, I love it when my clit has been touched like that.

Or I love that move.

When we're being touched like that, you know, it's like all these things.