Melissa Vranjes

Fuck it, this is taking too long.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly.

But, yeah, you're going to help your partnered sex life when you actually bring in more manual stim as well.

Toys are great.

Toys are fantastic.

But I just think we need to diversify our pleasure.

Okay, when we know what we want, we can better communicate it with somebody else.

So the example I gave, it's like, hey, here's the treasure chest, but I'm not going to give you the path to get there.

When we have got some bit of the path mapped out for our lovers, we can share that with them.

We can communicate.

And it's going to mean that we experience more pleasure.

We get there quicker.

They're not guessing anything.

no one's reading each other's minds it's just like hey here's what works you know instead of wasting all this time of like receiving something it's like oh god that is they're really off like they're really off you know and you have these sessions so learning about yourself and then being able to communicate that huge benefit amazing right so then you just have to communicate oh god

She's not there.

She's lost all her words.

And I think as well, when you masturbate, it reconnects you back to your desire, your eroticism, fantasy, your curiosities.

I do something in session with clients called the erotic mind map.

We should do it with you one day.

Yeah, it could be a bit too personal.