Melissa Vranjes

It's just like buzz, buzz.

Okay, that will get me there.

And sure, you may orgasm, but it's just not going to feel satisfying over time.

If we take that time and use different speeds, touches, pressures, it will just feel so much better.

Manual stim over toy stim.

Yeah.

Just exploring that, what that feels like for you.

I personally love manual stimulation.

Toys are fun every now and again, but it's not something I use all the time.

Can you get addicted to using toys?

Yeah.

Absolutely.

Exactly.

That's so true.

Really?

Yeah.

Well, you're hardwiring one pleasure pathway in your body.

When we don't diversify our pleasure, which is why I always say bring in manual stim, bring in your toys, sure.

But don't just always go for the same thing, doing the same thing because you're

like really ingraining only one pleasure pathway and then your body it's just one neurological pathway in the body that's going this is the only way that i can come you know but if it's like okay this session i'm not going to use my satisfier pro i'm going to do manual stimulation and i'm going to be completely fine that it may take like triple the time which is why most people are like oh it's