Melissa Vranjes

Can you shift from can I have a climax to can I experience pleasure?

And how much pleasure can I experience?

And the irony of that is that when you focus on how much pleasure you can experience, you can have way bigger and better orgasms.

No, I've met with clients like that.

Not if your focus is pleasure.

Right.

You know, if you're pre-orgasmic, which means you can't orgasm, we purely focus on pleasure.

okay how can we bring more pleasure into this experience okay where can we touch that feels pleasurable how much pleasure can we experience here 10 20 30 oh yes okay beautiful you know that then there's no such thing as failure or right or wrong it's just like yeah i experience some form of pleasure sometimes when i masturbate i don't orgasm it's just like i just want to feel in my body and i just want to feel sensual and like erotic okay and then that energy gives me that like radiance and charge throughout the day

I was.

I could feel the baby just kicking so much.

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Very fun self-care.

Pleasure to live it.

Okay, I want you to explore different types.

of touch sorry i can't look at you i can't look at me then it's fine different types of touch so change things up so firm pressure light barely there touching um explore different areas of the body again don't just go for the clit if you're a female like really focus down the outer labiae

Really touching, I talk about something and share a lot in my programs, a pussy massage, which is really about massaging your whole outer labia, your inner labia, your inner thighs, the mons pubis, really waking everything up so that it feels engorged, so that erectile tissue is plump and ready for stimulation.

A lot of the time we're masturbating

we're not even turning ourselves on.