Melissa

I'm not 40 yet.

I'm not 40 yet.

I'm not 40 yet.

My goals are, I would really love to have another partner in my life. I would really have to have that intimacy, that trust, that idea that I'm not going through all this alone. I don't know if I need the technicality of marriage again. Okay. You've been married? I've been married before.

My goals are, I would really love to have another partner in my life. I would really have to have that intimacy, that trust, that idea that I'm not going through all this alone. I don't know if I need the technicality of marriage again. Okay. You've been married? I've been married before.

My goals are, I would really love to have another partner in my life. I would really have to have that intimacy, that trust, that idea that I'm not going through all this alone. I don't know if I need the technicality of marriage again. Okay. You've been married? I've been married before.

I have two kids. I have two boys. Okay. They're younger. They're seven and nine. I am open to more kids. I've never thought of writing off the idea of no more kids or I need more kids. I very much believe that that would be something when I would meet that person that we would determine together, if that would make sense. So I'm open to it.

I have two kids. I have two boys. Okay. They're younger. They're seven and nine. I am open to more kids. I've never thought of writing off the idea of no more kids or I need more kids. I very much believe that that would be something when I would meet that person that we would determine together, if that would make sense. So I'm open to it.

I have two kids. I have two boys. Okay. They're younger. They're seven and nine. I am open to more kids. I've never thought of writing off the idea of no more kids or I need more kids. I very much believe that that would be something when I would meet that person that we would determine together, if that would make sense. So I'm open to it.

Tell me about the relationship or relationship that fucked you up. So, I mean, I think the biggest one is obviously my last marriage or my only marriage that ended. So that was a situation where from start to finish, it was not good. I probably should have walked away from it a lot earlier. I met this person out of college. We were together for about five or six years before we got married.

Tell me about the relationship or relationship that fucked you up. So, I mean, I think the biggest one is obviously my last marriage or my only marriage that ended. So that was a situation where from start to finish, it was not good. I probably should have walked away from it a lot earlier. I met this person out of college. We were together for about five or six years before we got married.

Tell me about the relationship or relationship that fucked you up. So, I mean, I think the biggest one is obviously my last marriage or my only marriage that ended. So that was a situation where from start to finish, it was not good. I probably should have walked away from it a lot earlier. I met this person out of college. We were together for about five or six years before we got married.

We were married for a little under eight years. I had my two boys. But the relationship itself was incredibly strange. And I for years would deal with. I've heard a lot of narcissistic talk and labeling. So I'm sensitive to the use of that word. But I was dealing with someone who truly battled demons. And I got sucked into that world and had a really hard time with this person for several years.

We were married for a little under eight years. I had my two boys. But the relationship itself was incredibly strange. And I for years would deal with. I've heard a lot of narcissistic talk and labeling. So I'm sensitive to the use of that word. But I was dealing with someone who truly battled demons. And I got sucked into that world and had a really hard time with this person for several years.

We were married for a little under eight years. I had my two boys. But the relationship itself was incredibly strange. And I for years would deal with. I've heard a lot of narcissistic talk and labeling. So I'm sensitive to the use of that word. But I was dealing with someone who truly battled demons. And I got sucked into that world and had a really hard time with this person for several years.

And I had threatened divorce. I felt very trapped. I felt very like, what do I do? I have two boys. How do I get out of this? It was very miserable for a very long time. And I didn't know how to get out of it. But the nail in the coffin was at the end of our relationship, he acknowledged being in love with someone else and wanting to end our marriage.

And I had threatened divorce. I felt very trapped. I felt very like, what do I do? I have two boys. How do I get out of this? It was very miserable for a very long time. And I didn't know how to get out of it. But the nail in the coffin was at the end of our relationship, he acknowledged being in love with someone else and wanting to end our marriage.

And I had threatened divorce. I felt very trapped. I felt very like, what do I do? I have two boys. How do I get out of this? It was very miserable for a very long time. And I didn't know how to get out of it. But the nail in the coffin was at the end of our relationship, he acknowledged being in love with someone else and wanting to end our marriage.

And in a way, of course, that broke me and that trust in a way, it set me free. But because of that, Ich habe dann versucht, meine Person zu finden. Aber das war wirklich, das war wirklich schwer, weil ich mir so viel gegeben habe, dass ich für diese, weißt du, fast eineinhalb Jahrzehnte, ähm, ich wurde, was diese Person mir sein musste, um diese Beziehung zu überleben.

And in a way, of course, that broke me and that trust in a way, it set me free. But because of that, Ich habe dann versucht, meine Person zu finden. Aber das war wirklich, das war wirklich schwer, weil ich mir so viel gegeben habe, dass ich für diese, weißt du, fast eineinhalb Jahrzehnte, ähm, ich wurde, was diese Person mir sein musste, um diese Beziehung zu überleben.