Mia

I agree, actually.

So you've like really opened my eyes to the reality of the situation at hand and in making me real like internalize like, yeah, like, what do I really want?

What's best for me?

And don't, you know, try to appease someone that's not even putting in an effort to

32.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I mean, I, I got started already in general.

Cause like I'm trying to get myself together at the moment as well.

But however, I wouldn't ever, you know, with someone that,

I like in this instance with someone that I like and everything, I wouldn't, you know, deprive my time with them fully.

You know, like I wouldn't be like, oh, I can't I can only see you once a month.

Like I would make an effort for somebody still, even if I, you know, have such a busy schedule and whatever.

And obviously he's not there.

willing to do that at all so it's making me kind of also think that he's just coming up with excuses on like maybe stringing me along keeping the leash on and maybe you know feeling like he can kind of just have me whenever it's convenient for him and that's not what I want at all yeah well good but that's definitely what's happening it seems like

Yeah, I think I just needed brutal honesty and just some eye-opening advice and everything.

So this has been really helpful.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I agree with you on that one.