Michaela

If you genuinely think it's going to pass and you're not going to act on it and nothing's going to happen, like, I don't know what the right thing to do is in that situation.

Yeah.

He's so cute.

I don't think in my last two, they were very like a lot shorter than a marriage.

But like in my last two relationships, there wasn't a point where I had a crush on someone else either.

I don't think one or the other is like right or wrong.

I think like either option could be right in both situations.

Like I think it could be right to just move gyms, never say anything.

And I think it also could be right in another relationship to be like, I just wanted you to know I was feeling this way and I knew it was wrong and I value our relationship more.

So I stopped seeing this person.

I don't know.

It's interesting because OP also said we've all had crushes in all of our relationships or whatever.

So it sounds like maybe he also has had a crush, but I don't think it would ever have been to like the extent that he's talking about in this situation.

I will say, when he is writing in this, I'm wondering if it's even up to him at this point.

It almost sounds like she's trying to...

leave him that's what I'm like why because he's like what should I do and I'm like how many options do you have like does she even still want to be in this relationship or was that like a goodbye it almost sounded like a goodbye a goodbye or like she's trying to test the waters of like opening yeah things up I haven't read the update for this one I have no idea what we're about to encounter mm-hmm

Yeah.

And if you're going to keep seeing someone that you have said you have this extremely intense crush on, then that is not...

That makes a lot of sense to me because even hearing that, I was like, I don't think she would even feel that way if she saw her husband like laughing with a co-worker, you know?

So this just feels like...