Michaela

I'm going to make someone else feel awful and seem awful to everyone else.

But I can see why she was insecure, especially given how the husband was writing about it for the whole time.

It's just that doesn't excuse then how you act about it.

Yeah.

I mean, I don't know.

Yeah.

I don't know if someone being in therapy individually like automatically means that they're the one with more issues.

I think that like sometimes.

Sometimes they're more aware.

Yeah.

They're working on it, which is great.

I feel like he mentioned her being less attractive in like the first two sentences.

I'm sure he didn't like noticeably like say anything to her before to make her feel that way.

But I think there was some kind of vibe.

No, totally.

I think the reason I'm coming at it from...

not even like her not being an asshole, just saying that I think part of it also might have been.

There's more there.

That she could tell him feeling that way is because he said it to her very loudly and assuredly at the end.

So like, I don't think it's a huge leap to be like, maybe he was dropping any kind of like nonverbal hints of that before saying it because he felt that way and he said it.