Michaela

What?

Why are you telling all of this to him?

Yeah.

Yes.

Yeah, because I was going to say, like, if you have a crush on someone, but technically, like, haven't actually done anything, like, at that point, do you say something?

If you genuinely think it's going to pass and you're not going to act on it and nothing's going to happen, like, I don't know what the right thing to do is in that situation.

Yeah.

He's so cute.

I don't think in my last two, they were very like a lot shorter than a marriage.

But like in my last two relationships, there wasn't a point where I had a crush on someone else either.

I don't think one or the other is like right or wrong.

I think like either option could be right in both situations.

Like I think it could be right to just move gyms, never say anything.

And I think it also could be right in another relationship to be like, I just wanted you to know I was feeling this way and I knew it was wrong and I value our relationship more.

So I stopped seeing this person.

I don't know.

It's interesting because OP also said we've all had crushes in all of our relationships or whatever.

So it sounds like maybe he also has had a crush, but I don't think it would ever have been to like the extent that he's talking about in this situation.

I will say, when he is writing in this, I'm wondering if it's even up to him at this point.

It almost sounds like she's trying to...