Michaela

Heads.

I kind of want the other one.

That's how you know.

But I initially was really interested in the gold digging one, but I think I need to know about not sleeping with a mutual friend.

I don't know if this is going to be a hot take.

I am not on OP's side.

First of all, like, it made me feel like she didn't trust my word.

You just said the whole thing is that you wouldn't give your word, that you wouldn't.

And I feel like I got a little whiplash there.

I also just have to say, like, if you don't have any feelings for this person and, like,

This is your friend of 13 years and they have a history and sure it was a long time ago.

I don't think you can police how they feel about someone that they actually have history with and just like not sleep with this guy.

And honestly, if someone to me was like, well, I'm not planning on it, but no promises.

Like that sounds like you want to.

Yeah.

I don't know.

I'm not saying it's like the end of the world to like...

sleep with someone I don't know I wouldn't I wouldn't hook up with someone that has had a previous relationship with one of my friends personally I think it causes like a negative dynamic between you and that friend I like I had this happen with one of my close friends I'd like not even had a relationship with the guy but like had been talking to him for a while and

Many years later, she started seeing him.

And during the time she was seeing him, she was very weird to me.