Michelle Flynn

This can look different for somebody who has teenage kids to small kids.

I'm a big advocate, Clare.

I have three small kids of my own.

I had, you know, three under three.

So they're really close together and the fights are really intense.

But I think it's really important for them to have an experience of learning how to navigate this themselves.

Because if you remember, like this is your first experience of how you navigate friendships, how you navigate rivalry, right?

belonging, fairness, what loyalty means, you know, all of these things you're learning in those early relationships.

So obviously being there to support is important from a parent's point of view, but I think as much as you can allowing the kids to

to navigate that for themselves is really important.

And this is also done by modelling, right?

So, like, how are you modelling this with your partner?

How are you navigating relationships?

Or with your own siblings?

Like, what do your kids see you doing with your own family?

Do you know?

That's how kids learn.

Like, I suppose within reason.

Do you know, we're not going to let them kill each other.

Right.