Michelle Kaplan

Yeah, yeah, exactly.

So if it's not what's making your decision, who else is coming, then make sure that that's obvious.

So you might say something like, oh, who's coming?

I'm so excited to see everyone.

So this implies you're going.

You are going.

Yeah.

So this makes it clear that you're just you're just wondering who's going to be there, but you're excited any way you're going.

So let's do some role plays, Lindsay.

You know, sometimes there's that gray area, but we absolutely want to avoid is who else is coming?

I know.

tone of voice or depends who's coming right that that really makes it seem like it's hinging on it um i think it's fair to ask if people you know are coming so yeah um let's do another one so in this one i am i am waiting on an rsvp from you for my birthday dinner all right okay yes okay so can you make it yeah i'll be there uh who else is rsvp'd

Yeah.

Yeah.

Really interesting.

So guys, that other episode I was talking about is 2612.

That was I'm Up For It If You Are, How to Recruit Your Friends to Join You at Social Events.

Any other takeaways?

Yeah, just some, you know, sometimes we have to talk about what not to do, right?

And how it can sound and it's the perception of what it gives off.