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Michelle 'Mace' Curran

👤 Speaker
462 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

Oh, absolutely. I struggled with that early in my career while I was still trying to figure out how to differentiate those things and kind of realizing that everyone has those failures, those setbacks, those struggles.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

Oh, absolutely. I struggled with that early in my career while I was still trying to figure out how to differentiate those things and kind of realizing that everyone has those failures, those setbacks, those struggles.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

And being in a setting where people are admitting them right after the flight is a great visual for showing you that even, you know, the most experienced pilots, the most respected pilots are. in your unit are still making mistakes and being around people that are willing to fess up to them.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

And being in a setting where people are admitting them right after the flight is a great visual for showing you that even, you know, the most experienced pilots, the most respected pilots are. in your unit are still making mistakes and being around people that are willing to fess up to them.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

And being in a setting where people are admitting them right after the flight is a great visual for showing you that even, you know, the most experienced pilots, the most respected pilots are. in your unit are still making mistakes and being around people that are willing to fess up to them.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

And especially in, I had a couple of different environments that I was in where you felt like you were judged and ridiculed when you made a mistake, even though they would say all day long you weren't. And then another, a different unit, so a different group of people where it just felt so obvious that you weren't judged and ridiculed.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

And especially in, I had a couple of different environments that I was in where you felt like you were judged and ridiculed when you made a mistake, even though they would say all day long you weren't. And then another, a different unit, so a different group of people where it just felt so obvious that you weren't judged and ridiculed.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

And especially in, I had a couple of different environments that I was in where you felt like you were judged and ridiculed when you made a mistake, even though they would say all day long you weren't. And then another, a different unit, so a different group of people where it just felt so obvious that you weren't judged and ridiculed.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

Like it was this, I call it a culture of trust where you trusted, they talk about psychological security, right? Where you can fail and it's okay. You can make mistakes and we'll learn from the mistakes and we'll take whatever the results were of those mistakes and we'll own them and we'll deal with them. Sometimes they can be pretty serious, you know, depending what the mission is.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

Like it was this, I call it a culture of trust where you trusted, they talk about psychological security, right? Where you can fail and it's okay. You can make mistakes and we'll learn from the mistakes and we'll take whatever the results were of those mistakes and we'll own them and we'll deal with them. Sometimes they can be pretty serious, you know, depending what the mission is.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

Like it was this, I call it a culture of trust where you trusted, they talk about psychological security, right? Where you can fail and it's okay. You can make mistakes and we'll learn from the mistakes and we'll take whatever the results were of those mistakes and we'll own them and we'll deal with them. Sometimes they can be pretty serious, you know, depending what the mission is.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

but we're not going to look at that person and start attacking them and breaking down their character. Like that does not benefit us. And so just being brought up in the environment where I started to recognize the difference between those two and how much better I performed in one over the other, like the carrot or the stick, right? The stick works, but it's not sustainable.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

but we're not going to look at that person and start attacking them and breaking down their character. Like that does not benefit us. And so just being brought up in the environment where I started to recognize the difference between those two and how much better I performed in one over the other, like the carrot or the stick, right? The stick works, but it's not sustainable.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

but we're not going to look at that person and start attacking them and breaking down their character. Like that does not benefit us. And so just being brought up in the environment where I started to recognize the difference between those two and how much better I performed in one over the other, like the carrot or the stick, right? The stick works, but it's not sustainable.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

And that starts to break down that trust between everyone on the team over time. So I think that helped give me perspective on the mistakes that I would make. But I mean, if it was something big or something that I knew I was better than that, I shouldn't have done not just something small. I'm like, I'm I'm a better pilot than what I just showed or I'm a better officer or teammate or whatever.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

And that starts to break down that trust between everyone on the team over time. So I think that helped give me perspective on the mistakes that I would make. But I mean, if it was something big or something that I knew I was better than that, I shouldn't have done not just something small. I'm like, I'm I'm a better pilot than what I just showed or I'm a better officer or teammate or whatever.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

And that starts to break down that trust between everyone on the team over time. So I think that helped give me perspective on the mistakes that I would make. But I mean, if it was something big or something that I knew I was better than that, I shouldn't have done not just something small. I'm like, I'm I'm a better pilot than what I just showed or I'm a better officer or teammate or whatever.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

I mean, it would bother me. So I think it's something I still struggle with.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

I mean, it would bother me. So I think it's something I still struggle with.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: NEVER Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back with Michelle “Mace” Curran Former Fighter Pilot & Founder of Upside Down Dreams

I mean, it would bother me. So I think it's something I still struggle with.