Michelle Wolf

and it's not his fault yeah that's the big thing that's the thing i you gotta remember it's not his fault and that's the thing i have to remind myself of all the time where it's like he's it's just it's not like he's got a secret tip around the back full of milk right no yeah i mean he has a belly button

But, yeah, and I think I have to remind myself of that all the time.

And, you know, male friends of mine who have kids, I know I've had conversation with my one friend who he's been like, yeah, my wife, she gets really mad when I get to go out and work.

But she has to stay home with the kids and she's jealous.

And he's like, I just hate that she gets jealous.

And I was like, well, it's it's.

I'm jealous.

I'm jealous of how men and dads can work.

But again, for the most part, it's just not... It's biologically the issue.

I thought neither of mine are interested in bottles.

I was never able to get my toddler on a bottle.

And this one hasn't ever been interested either.

But I also haven't tried super hard.

And and part of the reason is that I'm a very big fan of breastfeeding.

It's very, very cool.

And I will say this with a large caveat, because I know there's a lot of people that can't breastfeed, don't have the time to breastfeed.

You know, I just don't want to get.

Oh, no, it's everyone.

Exactly.

like but I I love it and there's a lot of cool things about breastfeeding where the major benefits you get is when the baby actually like even if you pump not all that because essentially what happens when you breastfeed is that there's like all these ducks in your nipple and they absorb the baby's saliva and then that tells your body what to put in the milk and