Miesha Tate

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So, you know. You can't steal my piece. You can't steal my piece. I just lead those things with empathy. People ask me now, like, how do you when I talk to, you know, teenage groups or high schools or, you know, kids that are growing up in a social media world?

So, you know. You can't steal my piece. You can't steal my piece. I just lead those things with empathy. People ask me now, like, how do you when I talk to, you know, teenage groups or high schools or, you know, kids that are growing up in a social media world?

My heart goes out to them because I know how challenging it is to have that constant influx from people that you don't know telling you things you don't shouldn't have to hear from these people. Yeah. And I, my piece of advice is to lead with empathy. It ain't about you.

My heart goes out to them because I know how challenging it is to have that constant influx from people that you don't know telling you things you don't shouldn't have to hear from these people. Yeah. And I, my piece of advice is to lead with empathy. It ain't about you.

If that person is leaving a comment that's negative, if they, if they are hating on you and you haven't done something out and out wrong, I'm just like a terrible thing. Like it's just maybe a picture of you and they're just like, you look fat or something, right? It's nothing to do with you. It has to do with how that person is perceiving living and living their life. Like, they're not happy.

If that person is leaving a comment that's negative, if they, if they are hating on you and you haven't done something out and out wrong, I'm just like a terrible thing. Like it's just maybe a picture of you and they're just like, you look fat or something, right? It's nothing to do with you. It has to do with how that person is perceiving living and living their life. Like, they're not happy.

Like, if somebody's a troll, like, I'm like, oh, my God, I feel so sorry for you. That must suck, man. Like, you haven't found your peace yet. Like, you haven't found – you're searching for it. You don't know how to be happy. Like, if what I'm doing is hurting your feelings, like – I mean, I don't know what to say. Like, I'm sorry. Like, I'll say a prayer for you.

Like, if somebody's a troll, like, I'm like, oh, my God, I feel so sorry for you. That must suck, man. Like, you haven't found your peace yet. Like, you haven't found – you're searching for it. You don't know how to be happy. Like, if what I'm doing is hurting your feelings, like – I mean, I don't know what to say. Like, I'm sorry. Like, I'll say a prayer for you.

That's the best thing I can do, I guess, you know, but you're not going to steal my peace. Go ahead. If you want, it doesn't serve any purpose because it's not going to affect me. But what are you living with? Like, how's your day going? You know, the person that's like, leave that comment. I think about that. And I'm sometimes like, man, how's your day going? Like, Yeah. Right.

That's the best thing I can do, I guess, you know, but you're not going to steal my peace. Go ahead. If you want, it doesn't serve any purpose because it's not going to affect me. But what are you living with? Like, how's your day going? You know, the person that's like, leave that comment. I think about that. And I'm sometimes like, man, how's your day going? Like, Yeah. Right.

Like, and I actually mean it like sincerely, because I think sometimes these people are like reaching out negatively because it's almost like they're, they're blowing off a little steam. It's like, it's almost like a little cry for help in this little way, you know, like these people are. Yeah, I mean, healthy, normal, quote unquote, people don't really, you know, they're not doing that.

Like, and I actually mean it like sincerely, because I think sometimes these people are like reaching out negatively because it's almost like they're, they're blowing off a little steam. It's like, it's almost like a little cry for help in this little way, you know, like these people are. Yeah, I mean, healthy, normal, quote unquote, people don't really, you know, they're not doing that.

So anyways, I just lead with empathy and it saves me a lot of pain. I don't care what you say online about me. I don't care. I really can say that it's only because I've truly found my peace in all of this. So yeah, say whatever you want. It's all good.

So anyways, I just lead with empathy and it saves me a lot of pain. I don't care what you say online about me. I don't care. I really can say that it's only because I've truly found my peace in all of this. So yeah, say whatever you want. It's all good.

Yeah. So, you know, just remember that. Like, it doesn't have anything to do with you. Like, they're not happy. That's it. Like, you can feel sorry for them, and that's probably the best thing to do is, like, realize it's not about you. And they're sad. They have a worse life than you do, probably, if they're trying to bring you down with a comment, you know? Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. So, you know, just remember that. Like, it doesn't have anything to do with you. Like, they're not happy. That's it. Like, you can feel sorry for them, and that's probably the best thing to do is, like, realize it's not about you. And they're sad. They have a worse life than you do, probably, if they're trying to bring you down with a comment, you know? Yeah. Yeah.

So I hope, you know, that we probably... drove it home. People were like, okay, we got it, you know, but it's an important part, you know, and I do hope that people hear what we're saying, you know, and, um, I think there's definitely so much more that we could talk about. Cause I know there's like half of it. We didn't even get into, but I really am happy to have this conversation with you.

So I hope, you know, that we probably... drove it home. People were like, okay, we got it, you know, but it's an important part, you know, and I do hope that people hear what we're saying, you know, and, um, I think there's definitely so much more that we could talk about. Cause I know there's like half of it. We didn't even get into, but I really am happy to have this conversation with you.