Mireille Silcoff

That you could just do that? That's insane to me, that I can go to the pharmacy and, like, buy a pint of milk, you know, some deodorant, and, like, a cock ring is really... To me, feels incredibly new and incredibly kind of great.

That you could just do that? That's insane to me, that I can go to the pharmacy and, like, buy a pint of milk, you know, some deodorant, and, like, a cock ring is really... To me, feels incredibly new and incredibly kind of great.

I was having the best sex of my life.

I was having the best sex of my life.

Because I was a woman with a long career behind her. Because I was a woman who had endured a decade and a half of catastrophic illness. Because I was a woman with two children who needed me. Because I was a woman who knew who her girlfriends were. Because I could earn my own way. And all of those things conspired, came together, and it is a place of privilege, I will say that for sure.

Because I was a woman with a long career behind her. Because I was a woman who had endured a decade and a half of catastrophic illness. Because I was a woman with two children who needed me. Because I was a woman who knew who her girlfriends were. Because I could earn my own way. And all of those things conspired, came together, and it is a place of privilege, I will say that for sure.

But for many years, I was absolutely not in a place of privilege, right? So all these things conspired together to create a self-knowledge that... followed me into the bedroom. Hell yes.

But for many years, I was absolutely not in a place of privilege, right? So all these things conspired together to create a self-knowledge that... followed me into the bedroom. Hell yes.

Well, for one thing, I think I felt comfortable asking for sex.

Well, for one thing, I think I felt comfortable asking for sex.

Which I'm not sure in my younger years I was that comfortable doing. I don't know if I was such a first move maker. And so that changed. And that's a huge change, right? Certainly. So more comfortable asking for it, more comfortable asking for what I wanted. But I think the big thing...

Which I'm not sure in my younger years I was that comfortable doing. I don't know if I was such a first move maker. And so that changed. And that's a huge change, right? Certainly. So more comfortable asking for it, more comfortable asking for what I wanted. But I think the big thing...

And, you know, any woman who's been in a locker room, I know it's a cliche to talk about like middle-aged women being naked in locker rooms and not caring. It's like the younger women are like... I've been to the YMCA, baby. I understand it. Yeah, totally.

And, you know, any woman who's been in a locker room, I know it's a cliche to talk about like middle-aged women being naked in locker rooms and not caring. It's like the younger women are like... I've been to the YMCA, baby. I understand it. Yeah, totally.

The younger women are covering themselves up or like, you know, going into the stall and the older women are just walking around letting everything hang out. But I mean, that's true in the bedroom as well, right? And so I think a lot of it was just confidence. When I actually think of the sex... acts that I've been engaging in.

The younger women are covering themselves up or like, you know, going into the stall and the older women are just walking around letting everything hang out. But I mean, that's true in the bedroom as well, right? And so I think a lot of it was just confidence. When I actually think of the sex... acts that I've been engaging in.

I mean, you know, they're good, but they're not like so off the wall where I'm like hanging from chandeliers, you know, by clamps and straps. Like there's not, that's, that's not what's going on here. What's going on here is feeling truly sensual and not being a bash about it, like not being embarrassed or kind of weenie or kind of like, I think all of that just creates a kind of place of comfort.

I mean, you know, they're good, but they're not like so off the wall where I'm like hanging from chandeliers, you know, by clamps and straps. Like there's not, that's, that's not what's going on here. What's going on here is feeling truly sensual and not being a bash about it, like not being embarrassed or kind of weenie or kind of like, I think all of that just creates a kind of place of comfort.

And once you're comfortable in the bedroom or comfortable in yourself, it kind of opens things up for experimentation. You know, I was never much of a talker when I was young. Now I'm like talking. Are you dirty talking? ridiculous things. So yes, you know, stuff like that.

And once you're comfortable in the bedroom or comfortable in yourself, it kind of opens things up for experimentation. You know, I was never much of a talker when I was young. Now I'm like talking. Are you dirty talking? ridiculous things. So yes, you know, stuff like that.