Mitchell Osmond

They don't want you to take risks.

They don't want you to take chances.

They don't want you to back yourself in that way because it could go wrong.

Stay where you're at.

It should be good enough.

Why can't you be happy?

That's terrible advice, right?

But they say it because they love you.

And so what I tell guys all the time is like, hey, as we level up,

We got to anticipate this happening and understand how we're going to navigate it because that is the thing that keeps people pulled down.

That's why we call crabs in a bucket, right?

Crabs are reaching up, pulling the crab back down.

And this is what happens if we're not careful.

We can't handle that tension because we're tribal and we want to belong.

And the second we start elevating, we're like, whoa, I don't like this either.

People don't want to be around me as much.

So I'm just going to

Yeah, man, that's, that's so such an important question because I think we lose sight.

Like you said, we lose sight of the important things.

And here's the thing, man, we are, especially as men, you know, this is the case for women too, but as men, you know, when we think about the masculine essence, the thing that makes us men, um, that