Mitchell Osmond

You know what I mean?

And the moment...

I learned to let go of that expectation and embrace the fact that I must own this.

No one else.

And it will never actually be easy to believe that is to believe a fallacy, that it will always be difficult.

And perhaps that's always been the point, because we were designed to face adversity, especially as men.

We were designed to build, to conquer adversity.

to drive you know that's actually part of our masculine essence that's where we get our sense of purpose from is building something but the problem is is we get sabotaged because we think that it should be easy and so when we start to face adversity we give up or we back off when that's actually the sign that you need to double down

And so taking ownership is saying exactly that, that not my friends, not my family, not my wife, not my kids.

No one is going to do whatever this is I need to do.

It's only me who's going to do this.

And whether it's a goal in your fitness, a goal in your marriage, a goal in your finances and a goal, I don't care what it is.

It's all on you.

Right.

It's all on me and my life, you know, for me.

When I was faced with the honest truth of where I was heading, when that minister asked that question, are you living a life worthy of imitation?

I was forced to see the end.

And I realized no one would want the life that I'm no one would would want to imitate my life.

And you know what?

I got I created that life.