Monica Padman
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I can't believe you're on the fence about that.
Why get married?
Be friends.
you're in because love is not just love is more than sex and friends sexual love is romantic love and you get married and then you have friendships that are loving and supportive you could be roommates that's great but entering into the romantic bond of marriage with no attraction to the person or interest in it being sexual with them i think is a deal breaker that's a total deal breaker
No, hold on.
I want to be very clear.
If you're asexual, I honor that.
And you said to the person, I'm asexual.
I don't ever want to have sex.
And that person's like, cool.
I don't either.
But you really need to declare that.
That can't be a surprise.
Those are synonymous.
You think that's novel?