Monica
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Like, I want to call this person an asshole.
I don't want to hear about why it might not be their fault.
Or they might have had this thing.
Like, I need to express that I fucking hate this about this person right now, and I'm not really interested in making a case for them yet.
I'll get there, but I'm not there.
I know what it's coming from, too.
It's like, oh, they're struggling with this.
If I can paint this other version, it might alleviate this angst they're feeling.
Like, it feels like a solution, I think, in the moment when you're delivering that.
But when you're receiving it, you're like, well, I don't even want to tell you.
I'll tell someone else that's willing to go like, yeah, they're a fucking prick.
And then later I'll think of it, you know.
How do you want me to answer that?
Isn't that what you're supposed to say?
What do you want right now?