Morgan

Also, if your kid is scared, they're scared from someone yelling or are they scared from the jousting?

Like, what are they really scared about?

Because...

I mean, maybe the kid's overstimulated.

Maybe there's something going on.

But then like find a better spot for your kid to participate in an activity that aligns with them or is more individual and not in a crowd setting with intense screaming.

Right.

Probably.

I will say, so my overall vote too is not the asshole for OP getting upset and feeling unsupported.

But I will say this is a pretty crazy level of communication breakdown.

And just like, I'm going to walk away, not say anything to my boyfriend and then also not see him for hours.

That's true.

There's no mention of like cell phones.

Like maybe they were really committed to the bit and didn't bring them.

There was nothing really constructive about this.

And

I think you're fair for your feelings, but then to the point where they say, we ended up arguing and it escalated more than it should have.

You guys got to get your shit together.

Feeling unsupported, you telling me to be quiet, you abandoned me.

Well, I get that, but what's he arguing?