Morgan

Do you feel like we're putting too much pressure on the fact that, like, everyone needs to get along?

I think so too.

I think like,

I think we've kind of come to this unrealistic expectation of like, you need to get along with everyone and like all your mutual friends and a friend of a friend.

You need to like them and you need to like their partners.

It's like, hey, not everyone's my cup of tea.

I'm not everyone's cup of tea.

Like we we can be OK with that.

Find who you like and just stick with your people.

He doesn't want that happy birthday text every year.

The top comment on this one.

Unfortunately, there's not much you can do about it except learn to manage your feelings.

You've said it yourself.

Your best friend is happy with him.

And that's all that matters.

I think there's often this unspoken expectation that we should like our friend's partners.

But sometimes you just don't click with someone.

That's okay.

You don't have to force yourself to be close with him.

Disliking him doesn't make you a bad friend.