Morgan

My husband backed me up and said that she was overreacting.

He told her that I respected her wishes and did not post her kids pictures online and that I do not owe her an apology.

My sister-in-law blocked both of us.

My mother-in-law says we should explain the misunderstanding better and just apologize to end this argument.

Do I owe her an apology?

Was I an asshole?

It's also like I think we like to be like, oh, just be the bigger person to the one that's usually a victim in a situation.

A lot of times, I mean, because we know how irrational and hardheaded and just gullible.

goofy that other person is.

And it's easier to make the person be the bigger person when they have sense.

And it's like, yeah, let me guilt you into apologizing for no reason to placate the crazy person.

It doesn't make sense.

It's like,

She has her rules for her kids.

OP followed them.

But what?

Like you're unhappy that she followed your rules?

And I find it interesting.

I didn't think about this until I saw this comment.

So someone goes, not the asshole.