Ms. Marcus (audio clip)

My wife walked out to me having sex with another woman. I was blackout drunk. I don't really remember much of that actual event. We haven't had sex together since, and it's been approaching a year.

My wife walked out to me having sex with another woman. I was blackout drunk. I don't really remember much of that actual event. We haven't had sex together since, and it's been approaching a year.

My wife walked out to me having sex with another woman. I was blackout drunk. I don't really remember much of that actual event. We haven't had sex together since, and it's been approaching a year.

Hey, John. What's up? Good day to you, sir. You too, man. How we doing? I'm doing probably better than I deserve. All right. That may be a low bar, right? I'm just playing. What's up? Tell me about it. So I'm going to get straight to the point, straight to the facts, John. So on a blackout drunk night in a big social event, my wife walked out to me having sex with another woman.

Hey, John. What's up? Good day to you, sir. You too, man. How we doing? I'm doing probably better than I deserve. All right. That may be a low bar, right? I'm just playing. What's up? Tell me about it. So I'm going to get straight to the point, straight to the facts, John. So on a blackout drunk night in a big social event, my wife walked out to me having sex with another woman.

Hey, John. What's up? Good day to you, sir. You too, man. How we doing? I'm doing probably better than I deserve. All right. That may be a low bar, right? I'm just playing. What's up? Tell me about it. So I'm going to get straight to the point, straight to the facts, John. So on a blackout drunk night in a big social event, my wife walked out to me having sex with another woman.

I was blackout drunk. I don't really remember much of that actual event. And since that happened, my wife and I, we've been going through therapy individually as well as couples therapy, seeing psychiatrists, you know, and therapists as well. Day to day, things are as good as they can be given the circumstances. We still show a little affection, but we still function. She's a stay at home person.

I was blackout drunk. I don't really remember much of that actual event. And since that happened, my wife and I, we've been going through therapy individually as well as couples therapy, seeing psychiatrists, you know, and therapists as well. Day to day, things are as good as they can be given the circumstances. We still show a little affection, but we still function. She's a stay at home person.

I was blackout drunk. I don't really remember much of that actual event. And since that happened, my wife and I, we've been going through therapy individually as well as couples therapy, seeing psychiatrists, you know, and therapists as well. Day to day, things are as good as they can be given the circumstances. We still show a little affection, but we still function. She's a stay at home person.

um, wife, um, I, I work extremely hard to provide, but ultimately my question is, John, what can I do outside of therapy and counseling, um, to kind of rebuild a safe space for her? And a follow-up question to, to that would be, um, what can I do to kind of, uh, maintain my, uh, physical needs without making her feel pressure because we haven't had sex together since.

um, wife, um, I, I work extremely hard to provide, but ultimately my question is, John, what can I do outside of therapy and counseling, um, to kind of rebuild a safe space for her? And a follow-up question to, to that would be, um, what can I do to kind of, uh, maintain my, uh, physical needs without making her feel pressure because we haven't had sex together since.

um, wife, um, I, I work extremely hard to provide, but ultimately my question is, John, what can I do outside of therapy and counseling, um, to kind of rebuild a safe space for her? And a follow-up question to, to that would be, um, what can I do to kind of, uh, maintain my, uh, physical needs without making her feel pressure because we haven't had sex together since.

And it's been approaching a year and I take full responsibility for my actions. Um, and that has been, uh, you know, a really good thing for, for both of us. But those are my questions.

And it's been approaching a year and I take full responsibility for my actions. Um, and that has been, uh, you know, a really good thing for, for both of us. But those are my questions.

And it's been approaching a year and I take full responsibility for my actions. Um, and that has been, uh, you know, a really good thing for, for both of us. But those are my questions.

I feel like I tried to convince myself that I would never do it. But deep down, you know, I've been so insecure my whole life. And to be honest, I wasn't ready to get married. But I do love her. And, you know, I'm convinced that she is the one. I just, this is the first time I've ever really been honest with myself, John. There you go.

I feel like I tried to convince myself that I would never do it. But deep down, you know, I've been so insecure my whole life. And to be honest, I wasn't ready to get married. But I do love her. And, you know, I'm convinced that she is the one. I just, this is the first time I've ever really been honest with myself, John. There you go.

I feel like I tried to convince myself that I would never do it. But deep down, you know, I've been so insecure my whole life. And to be honest, I wasn't ready to get married. But I do love her. And, you know, I'm convinced that she is the one. I just, this is the first time I've ever really been honest with myself, John. There you go.

Three years. We've been together a total of nine. Okay.

Three years. We've been together a total of nine. Okay.