Nadia

Yeah, it did.

I remember that.

And you're like, holy shit.

And who's making this all up?

Yeah, hold on to that.

Yeah.

And it does make us definitely feel when one of us behaves in a certain way, our nervous system doing the thing that it does, which is to protect us.

Then having this witness who also understands the work of the nervous system, which is really such a blessing, is that when something happens, I can phone her and she can be like, okay.

So that's your nervous system doing that.

But that might be his nervous system doing this.

And I can say, I mean, even she got this beautiful necklace as a Christmas present, a birthday present.

Birthday, 50th birthday.

From her husband.

And I have a similar necklace that she's like, oh, you're not wearing that necklace anymore.

Do you want to give it to me?

I was like, yeah, sure, I'll give it to you.

And then in the post arrives the necklace that she'd been saying she wanted and her husband had...

bought it for her and it arrives and she phones me and she's like, he bought me the fucking necklace.

And I went, that's amazing.

And she went, no, we can't afford it.